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Inspirational words in this text

“I acknowledge that sex is not only a physical act but a spiritual act as well. Therefore I will save my mind, body, and spirit for my future mate.” – From My Commitment to GOD

Today is my one month anniversary! renewing my commitment to
~to myself,
~to my family
~my friends
~and to my future mate.

My commitment to them all to stay pure with my renewed abstinence.

One month ago, I attended two classes that were held in my church* for my age group. Addressing what does “True Love Waits” mean……and how can one be able to protect their purity; your pure virginity or renewed abstinence.

I have renewed my abstinence and if you surveyed and asked me if my first time was worth it. I would of said

“if I could go back in time, I would have never lost my virginity the way I did.”

But today, I do not sit in regret…today I sit with acceptance for what I’ve done and evermore inspired to save myself; not for my next “boyfriend” but for the next man who will respect my abstinence; a man who is in search a woman he will wholeheartedly commit to a monogamously loving relationship; which will last a ~lifetime~.

It IS possible.

There is so much in this world today that makes it hard to believe it; hard to believe that a marriage can last; News of divorce is no longer few and far between but I believe wholeheartedly as long as I keep my steps aligned with GOD and HIS Timing it is possible to have a marriage that will last a ~lifetime~.

I understand that I must not sit and wait for him to come me but that I must step out into the world putting into action all the good GOD wants me to do and in turn my Adam (the man that God is working on for me) will cross paths with me when he as well is putting into action all the good GOD wants him to do.

I need to pause for a moment……………………….

Wow……..The Day will come.

It is coming each second that goes by!

Here is my monthly commitment. ~I am so grateful for my church!~

A commitment I speak with all of my heart each month and in which I take to action each day…

Believing that true love waits, I make
~~A commitment to GOD~~
myself, my family, my friends,
my future mate, to a lifetime of purity
including sexual abstinence from this
day until the day I enter a biblical
marriage relationship.

I acknowledge that my body is a
temple of the Holy Spirit, and I will
protect and guard this temple and will
present my body as a living sacrifice
to God. I acknowledge that sex is not
only a physical act but a spiritual act
as well. Therefore I will save my mind,
body, and spirit
for my future mate.
I was worth dying for; therefore
~I am worth waiting for~

~ You are worth dying for ~
Jesus loved us much that he died for our sins.

~ You are worth waiting for ~
And such a great sacrifice deserves our gratitude and honor for what he has done for us.

~You are worth waiting for~

This prayer is for you as well ❤

~~Many blessings~~

*Here is a link to my church: Jubilee


Quest for Love

What a blessing, What JOY to find “the one”! To find Mr. Right or Mrs. Right! The man, the woman you will give your ALL too WITHOUT a second thought! In society today, it seems like it takes LUCK to find the one. According to movies, according to magazines, according to stories people share with us….it almost seems you just got to be LUCKY to find yourself with Mr. or Mrs. Right. Someone who is absolutely in LOVE with you and ONLY YOU!

We seek and so many of us find and rush into relationships with hopes to find that person! Influenced by family, friends, society who directly or indirectly tell us that we are of age to date or to marry; opinions that were based on their watch and on yours.

Many of us end up heartbroken and scarred from a relationship that started off so right and ended SO wrong. The heartache came because we didn’t know and were not taught that the best time to be in a relationship is on GOD’s Time and it is simply because “HIS timing is better than [ours]”…..Always.

Reading those words in this blog has re-enforced my commitment to stay pure for the man of my dreams. The man God knows so much better than I because HE is the one who is working on “the one” for me. And a true man of God would be loyal, loving, faithful, committed and I put all my faith on His Timing. I look so forward to that day.

The Making of a Woman, one of the best sermon’s by Pastor Johnson of Eastern Star Church. Eve was not God’s afterthought; neither were YOU! God didn’t make woman until Adam realized he needed one. Pastor Johnson’s next point was that if a man doesn’t know that he needs you, then its not the right time.
The making of woman is a process. God put Adam in a deep sleep while He was making Eve. God wants to make you whole and complete before he wakes up the Adam in your life.

God is not through with you yet! Do not become any less than who you were created to be. A man that accepts you as you are is the right man for you. I accept that God is working on me while He is also working on my Adam. His timing is better than mine, so I believe…

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