Words of Wisdom applied to this text
— Love is Patient, Love is Kind – 1 Corinthians 13 : 4 – 8
— It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it. – Aristotle
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As I meditate in prayer of gratitude for my parents, there are a well of emotions and thoughts that wants to come up. Emotions and thoughts that are nudging their way in; wanting to interrupt. Emotions and thoughts that are NOT of gratitude.
Unresolved moments of disagreements and disappointments I’ve had with my parents that has brought me to tears, frustration, anger, and resentment in the past. “Forgiven” but not Forgotten moments from childhood to adulthood.
As I was about to make efforts to nudge them away with much more force, instinctively I let them win and allowed them to interrupt my prayer of gratitude and it was just as instinctive that the perspective came to birth.
We All Have Flaws But There is So Much To Be Thankful For
Did I hear these words before?
If yes, Where and When? I must have saved them for another day just the same as I saved those negative memories for a day when I need them. (Which now influences the thought – Why would I wish to save bad memories?)
If no, is it a message from GOD?
I would say both. All wisdom comes from GOD and everyone speaks words that are channels from GOD. And wisdom I’ve learned throughout the years has now made me able to reflect and find the answers within.
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I remember learning such a great lesson from Iyanla Vanzant a few months ago.
Close Your Eyes
Drop Your Arms
Let the hurt feelings come
And I see now what I’ve done.
Additionally, the words “Love is Patient, Love is Kind” were spoken and reflected in the lessons my Pastor and his wife shared this past Sunday. A Lesson I have stored within and now have helped me decipher this thought that my parents have flaws but there is so much that I can thankful for. I in turn have flaws and there is so much that I am thankful for, such as they continue to love me with all my flaws, their love is Unconditional. (tears are welling up right now, I am Oh…So..Thankful!!)
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Now I can meditate with Gratitude so much more effectively even when I allow those nudges of disagreements to join in…Because they have influenced MORE gratitude.
I am now MORE grateful because the wisdom stored within have now given me strength to welcome, reflect and overcome those negative nudges.
Additionally, I am MORE grateful for Aristole’s words “It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it.”
I know in the past, I would have allowed those negative nudges to interrupt and overpower and influence my mood for the rest of the day.
A mood that would resonate negative energy and awaken a new disagreement or argument between a parent and I or both my parents and I.
I do not wish to end my day this way.
I chose to end my day with love.
I leave now to continue growing my list of Gratitude ❤